Real Fathers, Real Men

As we grow and learn what god's plan is for our lives we get more confident and more acute with our gifts. Just like God we know our children also. Not just in habits and behaviors but also biologically, (you are the baby Daddy). You heard about mothers instinct well there is an instinct that fathers have also, If this is an unsure or unsafe time in your life when it comes to children and relationships its time to be honest with yourself and God. If you produce a child its a gift from God in most cases. Find out so you don't miss your blessing, get tested or just go see the baby. Children are not as scary as it might seem. The real scary part is a hurt and confused (baby momma) mother of a child with no father to help rear them. It's only right You laid her down, now pick up your responsibility. If we be men then we must live as men, men honor God and take care of their children. Men do not disrespect the child's mother or themselves. Real men are real fathers.

I model for my children my experiences, failures and success. I challenge myself and my children to taste God and life and seek good, but also learn how to prosper in adversity. My father was what I needed even when I didn't agree with his methods I still grew and did not die. "As long as the ties that bind us together, don't tear us apart all will be well" I failed a lot of times but I kept getting back up and I'm still getting up some day. It's a process and it take help so get help. I don't allow the past to take me hostage anymore or render me paranoid and motionless. Raising seven children in a failed marriage then the last three as a single parent has given me wisdom beyond my years and my situations. Now married again I have to learn to let go and let